March 11--Chat Log            



grace lets talk why not
Jenn i thought that the women in in the bedroom stood up for herself very well
tiffany okay
Ben what'd you guy think of the story?
lyndsey what exactly do we have to do after we chat........3 adult websites?
tiffany so do i...she got what she wanted
grace haha
grace 3 non adult websites
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Jenn no what we read
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Jenn i thought the guy was an ass if you will
grace i will
grace you're right
lyndsey i think that she got him back
MikeK I wounldnt have gave her the money
james well why should he have to pay her?
Rachael yeah pretty much....he didn't deserve her
Jenn i liked what she did,, but i would have left him
lyndsey no he didn't
leigh yeah well I think this was a messed up story
Ben the guy made men look really bad
melissa I think thats its a cute idea
leigh who does that???
lyndsey because she was getting even
ship why leigh
melissa I dont think she would have seriously been mad
ship life is messed up
grace about what? her husband cheating?
james they were married so why should he have to pay her
leigh cause I would have never be able to think of somethign liek that
leigh it was kinda amusing
melissa no about him paying
grace they were married so why should he be seeing other women
melissa well the reason James, was because he was cheating
tiffany well, he paid a lot of other women...why not his wife
russ dude why would you pay your wife if you can have any other woman?
Jen because he realized he loved her
grace russ, you'll make a find husband someday
leigh lol
russ i know
melissa Grace, i agree
grace ; )
lyndsey why would he admit it, that is my question....that was just stupid on his part
melissa soo anyway
james admit what
ship who is to say that he really can have any other woman
Jen i think she heard about him cheating
lyndsey that he paid other women
melissa if you were the wife and he did pay you, would you still be mad that he was cheating
Jenn why would he admit what
tiffany he wanted to live his own life, and just have his wife for show
lyndsey i would still be mad
Jenn are you saying he should have lied?
melissa Would it be okay for her to cheat aswell
james he shouldnt have to pay her
Rachael maybe he can't get any other women and that is why he's going back to his wife
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Jen he didnt pay other women...he spent that money on them in dinner and jewerly and stuff like that
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lyndsey i am not saying that he should've
lyndsey i am saying that he just got himself in deeper
james how
lyndsey i know
Dan_Snyder But would it have been worse if he lied, and she caught him?
melissa well if they dont have an honest relationship, they have nothing
lyndsey i meant spending money
lyndsey in general
lyndsey i agree melissa
melissa yeah the money beingt spent was the icing on the cake.
james she already knew he was cheating
lyndsey yup
russ he told her that he was cheating
melissa The fact that he was cheating, but then that he was also spending all tat money
melissa when he could have been spending it on her
tiffany and he told her that she could find some other guy too, just to keep it quiet
russ she just didn't cheat...it said that he had like 4 women other than her while they were married
Jen and when he did that he made it clear to her that she(the wife) was unattractive and wanted nothing to with her basically...they stayed together for appearances only
lyndsey that is so messed up!!!!
MikeK she knew about all the women
Jen so i think it was good that the wife went and found someone else
leigh I think this was a clever story
james well then thats fine....so why should he have to pay her
lyndsey i would've left
grace because he owed it all to her
lyndsey she was getting even
leigh casue he wanted her again
james if theyre just there for each others "show" then thats fine..leave it at that
grace that's the way she saw it
leyna i would have left too
melissa Lyndsey, I would have gotten the money, then I would have left
leigh and she wanted the money
lyndsey besides, he agreed to it
leigh kinda like gettting even
Rachael i don't think it had anything to do with money....it had to do with the lack of affection....she saw how low her husband really was b/c he actually gave her $ at the end
lyndsey yes you're right
tiffany that's a good point
Jen i agree with rachael
Rachael she longed for the sense of belonging and the mere fact that someone loved her
melissa yeah but money is always a plus
lyndsey yes it is
Rachael niice
james so she could have left...so why didnt she?
russ but the other guy was all over her at the party
james if it was so important to her
james leave
melissa I hope she does
grace perhaps she still loved him
leyna leaves?
Rachael that i don't know
leigh they had a kid together didn't they?
james she should have left if she wanted all that affectionate stuff
Jenn yes
melissa oh did they
leigh I thought i read that somewhere
ship the guy is only interested in himself
tiffany i dont' think that she really loved him
Rachael but i thought it was interesting how she handled the situation
russ the whole story was about her yelling at him, it sucked
lyndsey maybe she didn't have anywhere to go, or she had to save enough money to leave.....lol
james if she knew he was cheating...and it bothered her that much, leave
melissa hmmm well that makes things more coplicated
Rachael not any more
Jen sometimes when you love someone it is harder then you think to just leave and give up on it
leigh she wasn't botherd tho
melissa Jen- very true
leigh she was getting with other guys too
james well than why all this she just needed some caring talk
tiffany and he didn't like it
MikeK she said she didnt
melissa Leigh, was she?
lyndsey maybe she didn't want to wreck her immage
grace she hadn't yet.. but she could've
leigh she just didn't find anyone that she loved yet
leigh well that other guy at the party was hitting on her
russ it's not about love
james so why not leave the husband so she could
tiffany he was jealous when he saw someone flirting with her
Rachael they had a child together....i'm not saying that's why they should stay together...but they felt it was best for the child
Jen russ-it is about love
lyndsey good point
leigh yeah thats what I tought rachael
leigh so they made an agreement
russ well i don't think so
james if its about love why is money involved/
Jen why?
Ben this story makes an attempt to point out how strong the female character is compared to the male. Madame Servy shows alot of nerve in the face of her husbands weakness and dishonesty and totaly overpowers him.
lyndsey why russ?
MikeK i dont think its about love, its about love gone bad
melissa well that really is a crap situation
russell I agree with ben
grace well put
lyndsey i agree
melissa They should each find one other person and commit to them
russ why don't i think so? it's about lack of trust and dishonesty
james exactly...so leave e/o and not worry about the money
lyndsey maybe she doesn't feel that she can trust anyone?
melissa cause once you cheat, its hard to have anything worth calling a relationship
Rachael maybe and that's why she just plays with their minds
james true...but then why stay with that person...i still dont get that
leigh I think she is waiting to meet someone that she loves first
melissa possibly
melissa Leigh, I agree
james well that doesnt make her look any better leigh
leigh then she will leave
leyna i think she should have left and found someont that will love her so she can be happy
Jen sometimes women stay in a relationship because they feel no one else will ever love them
leigh I never said it did
james so shes just as at fault as he is
melissa Well you have to keep in my the time period
leigh that what she said in teh story
james no i know..im just sayin
melissa I dont think it would have been very commen for a woman to just leave and be by heself
leigh but he had gotta with 4 women in the last month
leigh gotten*
Jen think about it..say you were in love with someone, they cheated on you, yeah you would be very hurt and mad but at the same time you still love that person
Rachael what exactly is the time period??
ship will the evening be more interesting if the man pays the money as the wife suggests?
russ they were still married the whole time, the 18th century is 1700s, no divorce
russ he did pay it at the end
james more interesting how
melissa So she really cant leave
lyndsey yeagh, but it wouldn't be love like they had before
Dan_Snyder Not to mention it wasn't uncommon for men to have mistresses in that time period.
james thats true too
melissa Dan- exactly
tiffany they are both kinda stuck with one anothere
Ben the thing is that she dosn't love him anymore
lyndsey you might still love them, but that desn't mean that you should stay
james and he doesnt really love her...bc if he did he wouldnt cheat on her constantly
christina she really didn't have a choice
melissa well... then they should start making the most of things... and being monogomous
russ that's moulin rouge, it's a brothel, and very acceptable
lyndsey not in her eyes
james why you say that
lyndsey or she wouldn't have made him pay
lyndsey if it was acceptable, she wouldn't have cared
Rachael i think that was just a game...she wants him back but she's telling him that he needs to earn her
james so you';re saying she didnt think it was acceptable. so she had her own husband pay her
lyndsey maybe
christina i agree rachel
james yeah that doesnt make sense
melissa right
tiffany just because it's acceptable doesn't mean that everyone is going to go for the idea
james now how does paying her make it acceptable
tiffany like his wife
russ women are so complicated!
lyndsey it doesn't
leyna paying her doesnt make it acceptable
lyndsey it might make her feel like she got some revenge though
james then i cant say i feel all that bad for her
melissa revenge is good
Rachael exactly
leigh I don't think she even wanted him back, he said he wanted her back so I guess maybe she figured she could make some money on the deal
lyndsey i agree
Rachael yeah that would be nice!
james he doesnt want her back...hes lying...the dude cheated on her 4 times in one month
Jen i dont think it was about money in the end
leigh yeah, but it wasn't about her wanting him again
melissa But if she was offered a brand new start with him, where he wouldnt cheat, I'm sure she would love to take it
ship we've looked at many stories and works over the past week dealing with women vs. Society....
melissa well the woman in this story gets dicked over cause of the laws about divorce
ship what is your reaction to the subject matter in terms of the course theme
james i dont think she would. and shed be stupid if she did
lyndsey what are you getting at>?
Rachael the women is taking the stronger role because she knows what she wants
melissa I think its good that a subject liek this is discussed
Rachael not just what the man wants her to want
Ben ship, I think it's an imporant subject
ship but her role is limited isn't it Rachael?
russ she's a shark! she agees to have an open relationship, and then charges him money so that he could be her husband
grace it's interesting the way you can find conflicts in most any area of life
james yeah bc hes gonna do what he wants anyway
melissa Russ, no thats not how it is
Rachael yes because of the time period....divorce was not in the question
ship she doesn't flee the marriage because it provides no benefits
james so she doesnt have as much power or control as some of you say
russ then how is it?
lyndsey she is standing up for herself.....instead of being the helpless carefree person that society looks ather as?
ship some women did divorce
russ in the 1700s?
Jim if they had money
james yeah so she could have left him
ship but in divorce a woman had no rights to any possession that she brought to the marriage
ship yes
leigh maybe she just didn't see the devorce necessary, plus they had a kid
ship she also would never be allowed near her child again
Rachael well...they were better off with a man because they took care of the money making
melissa He is the shark because he is breaking the spoken vows of a marriage
leigh it didn't seem like she cared about him that much
Rachael back then there weren't too many ways women could make it on their own
tiffany and she is basically stuck in the marriage
james but it wasnt that uncommon back then for the men to have mistresses
russ but they agreed to an open relationship, she CHOSE not to see anyone else
Jen doesnt mean its right
lyndsey that is not the point jim!
james back then it was acceptable
leyna he is the shark because she was stuck with him no matter what he did
ship a bit more difficult for a woman to be open
Jen yeah but once she did start seeing someone her husband got jealous
melissa right, she has to stay withhim, and if he isnt going to be monogomous with her, then she should find an awesome lover
james im not saying its right either. but it was accepted
russ exactly!
lyndsey she didn't accept it
christina no matter how you look at...it was a bad situation
james as a society it was accepted
lyndsey yes it was
ship it's 10:32....I will post this chat as well as Fridays so you can refer to it
russ we can go then?
Rachael okay look at the society today...this situation is not toooo bad
Jen no websites
melissa But... it was also accepted to be faithful to your wife. It was probably more accepted
ship I suggest that you begin to review or view websites....that undermine the value of women in society
leyna what kind of websites are we looking for
russ i mean out of the chat room
christina yes it is bad...do you wanna be cheated on ???
christina i didn't think so

 

 

 

 




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